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Lead Him Into Love – Do Not Push Him Away

You read that right – you want to lead him into love.  But I hear you asking, – People fall in love, right?  Why would you have to lead him into it?  Well, you are correct.  For the most part, love is something people fall into.  But, do you want to make this wonderful man your own, but he ignores you?  Do you want to push him away, or draw him into a wonderful relationship?  Then know this – people can start out by liking each other, then love comes.  So, learn how to lead him into love – and win his heart.

• Do you find it interesting that we did not say, -push him into love-?  The fact is, you can not force someone to feel love or affection for another person.  You may be able to push him into a relationship, into and engagement, and even into marriage, but either it will not last, or it will be more like an endurance contest that a romance.  So do not be outwardly aggressive.  Being outwardly aggressive will push him away.  What makes a person outwardly aggressive?  Demanding, calling frequently, expecting to spend all your time together, and so on.  Do not do these things – these will not make him commit.

• Male psychology dictates that if you want to attract men, you need to be the kind of person that they enjoy being with.  Do you enjoy being with someone who is bossy or demanding or rude?  No?  Neither do men.  So if that describes your personality, you need to make some changes.  Drop all the words from you vocabulary that are unpleasant and replace them with words that have positive energy, that make people feel good.  Insert a good compliment regularly in your conversation.

• Have a life.  Get a hobby.  Do things.  Go places.  Why?  It gives you something to talk about.  It gives your personality dimension and interest.  Being an active person is attractive.  An active person has more to offer in a conversation and so gets more attention.  Active people are admirable, attractive and popular.  An active person can more likely lead him into love.

• Learn how to tell a joke.  People, including men, enjoy being with someone who can make them laugh.  In a good way.  Learning how to tell a joke is a definite plus to any personality.  Buy a good joke book, pick out the best one and practice, practice, practice.  This is how to tell a joke.  Wait until everyone is in a good mood.  Then smile as you start the joke.  Smile a little more at each line.  When you get to the punch line, look as though you are going to burst out laughing.  Most of the people will laugh with you, and your Mr. Right will find you very attractive.

• Have respect for yourself.  You should do this for yourself, whether a man is involved or not.  People will tend to feel about us the same way we feel about ourself.  If we lack respect for ourself, so will others; including that special man.  This is one of the best pieces of dating advice you will ever get.  If Mr. Right treats you disrespectfully, then he is not Mr. Right.  He is Mr. Wrong.  He will likely follow your lead – if your respect yourself, he will respect you too.

I hope these tips helped.  Romance is wonderful.  Having a love life and a soul mate is almost the best thing there is in life.  But it can be so easy to push someone away and not even know it.  So, be sure to be the kind of person he would come to love dearly.  Lead him into love.

About the Author

Imagine what if you could make any man adore you, chase you, love you, and commit to you? Click Unforgettable Woman Advice and learn 77 Secrets that 99% of women have never heard. You have got to see this!

This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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